Ditch the cheesy hearts and cliché roses when decorating for Valentine’s day this year. Instead, decorate with classic patterns and add in dainty items for a more sophisticated and romantic look. Decor like florals, gingham, charming linens, elegant art and vintage vases will leave you with a more grown up Valentine’s decor look.
Love it or hate it, Valentine’s Day is just around the corner. Does anyone else find it hard to decorate for Valentines day? I’m sorry, I’m just not into the pink and red hearts or cheesy heart banners so I usually skip the holiday decorations all together.
Last year Kevin and I didn’t even acknowledge the “special day”, if that tells you anything about how NOT into Valentine’s Day we are. But this year I was determined to find some decor that was more sophisticated and versatile so we can still embrace the cute hallmark holiday… but without all the heart shaped everything.
In this blog post, we’ll explore some valentine’s decorations that aren’t cheesy to give your home a fresh look, but with a more romantic take. These creative ideas are easy ways to still partake in the Valentine’s Day decorations, but in a more mature and tasteful way.
Valentines decorations that aren’t cheesy
Florals
Florals are a perfect way to freshen up your home for any season, and Valentine’s Day is no exception. Instead of the usual bouquet of red roses, opt for a more subtle and sophisticated arrangement. Consider a mix of blush pink peonies, ivory ranunculus, and muted greenery. Or even better… check out some of these beautiful faux flowers in the link below (your secret is safe with me ;)) A bouquet of flowers on the dining table just feels romantic, even if they are fake!
Vintage vases
Place your pretty florals in elegant vases or vintage-inspired containers for an added touch of charm. Valentines day is the perfect time to bring out the grandma-esque vases and pottery. Thrift shops and FBMarket are great places to find these grandmillenial style items.
Tablecloths, runners & napkins
Another great way to add a little lovey-dovey flair to your decor is a table runner or tablecloth. Instead of heart shape patterns, however, think more country chic with toile or a little lacy action. You could go all out with Valentine’s day tablescapes… but maybe only if you are hosting a Galentine’s day party or home date night.
Bathroom linens
Using floral bathroom towels for Valentine’s Day decor is a practical and super easy way to introduce a festive feel where you tinkle. It’s a temporary and reversible way to decorate for special occasions, esp those like Valentine’s day that are a short season.
Display grandparent’s photos
Pick one of your favorite photo of your parents or grand parents together and display it in a cute thrifted frame. This is a sweet way to celebrate a real life love story and also add to an authentic vintage look (I guess, depending on how old your grandparents are)
Hang a wreath
Wreaths are such a non-committal way to acknowledge a holiday, and personally one of my favorite ways. Slap a wreath on the front door and call it done. There are some really cute red and pink floral wreaths out there for purchase, or tackle it as a simple DIY project
Change out pillow covers
Changing out your pillow covers is another fun way to add in a little valentine’s flare that can also transition beautifully into spring. Think simple pink buffalo checks, florals, or toile fabrics to keep it classy.
Romantic themed art
Check out my free art domain for some of my Valentine’s day art picks for a truly elegant look. These would be perfect valentines decorations that don’t look cheap at all!
Pink and red thrifted books
Simply adding in some classic colors of valentines day will give you a festive feel. Check out the thrift stores (or even just shop your home) for pink and red colored books. You could easily display these on a coffee table with a few taper candles or on open shelves, if you have them.
Heart shaped plates & boards
I wouldn’t go over the top with Valentine’s specific tableware, but a small collection of dessert plates wouuuuuld be pretty cute.
PATTERNS TO SHOP FOR THIS VALENTINE’S DAY…
Red and Pink Toile Patterns
Toile patterns offer a classic and refined aesthetic that can be incorporated seamlessly into Valentine’s Day decor. Choose red and pink toile patterns for items like tablecloths, pillowcases, or curtains. These patterns often depict scenic motifs, providing a touch of sophistication. Consider a table runner with a delicate toile pattern to elevate your dining area, creating a romantic setting for a special Valentine’s Day dinner.
Lace Accents
Lace adds a touch of delicacy and romance to any setting. Incorporate lace items such as table runners, placemats, or linens. Avoid going overboard, just add enough to give the a delicate touch. The intricate patterns of lace add texture create an atmosphere of elegance and looks oh so refined when done tastefully.
Lacy Bedding source: Home Tree Atlas | Lace Table cloth source: Silvester Fabric
Scalloped Details
I don’t know why, but the rounded look of scalloped edges on tableware, baskets and linens give such a dainty look. Adding anything scalloped to your Valentine’s day decor is a great way to soft the look of your home and give off a sweet, tender feel.
Red Chinoiserie Patterns
Chinoiserie patterns, inspired by traditional Chinese art, bring a touch of exotic charm to your Valentine’s Day decor. Opt for pink or red chinoiserie patterned items like throw pillows, towels, or napkins. These pieces can be strategically placed to add pops of color and unique patterns to your space. The combination of pink hues and chinoiserie designs creates a visually stunning and sophisticated look that sets the mood for a romantic celebration.
Pink Gingham
Pink buffalo plaid and checks are beautiful patterns to decorate with for Valentine’s Day decor. The dainty take of this traditional plaid is an easy way to add a festive and cozy touch to any room.
Decorate for Valentine’s Day with more elegance and less cliché
This Valentine’s Day, steer clear of clichéd paper hearts and oversized teddy bears – there are so many better options to decorate for Valentine’s day that aren’t so tacky.
I hope these valentine’s day decor ideas inspire you sprinkle your home with a little romance without going full 1st grade classroom. Whether you’re into the holiday or not… It’s a great time to put way the winter decor and transition into spring with a few simple changes. Plus, many of the items shared here would be used in different ways throughout the spring for more versatility in your home decor.
By incorporating florals, red and pink toile patterns, lace items, and pink chinoiserie pattern items, you can create a chic and non-cheesy atmosphere that celebrates love in an elegant and sophisticated way. Whether you’re planning a romantic dinner or simply want to freshen up your home for the day of love, these ideas will help you achieve a tasteful Valentine’s Day decor.
Girl Behind the Blog
I’m Jess, the creator of Oak & Grain. A mid-west girl at heart who now resides in Raleigh, NC. I love finding old things and giving them new purpose by way of refinishing or incorporating unexpected, overlooked thrift store finds in the modern home. I work full-time in medicine and I love dipping into my creative side and in the process, keeping my sanity. Follow me on Instagram and YouTube to see more behind the scenes action.
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